First off, absolutely no offense to the person that inspired this as he’s a much nicer boy than most and this is a general trend.
What I mean is when a girl does or says something that is clearly a dealbreaker for a guy instead of bringing it up as nicely as possible they just stop calling her. Now if it’s a new-ish relationship, obviously the guy has no obligation to her but for the sake of men everywhere he should just tell her whatever she did wrong.
Now I don’t mean anything to do with her appearance or weight because fuck you and your opinion about the amount of cheeseburgers I or any other woman eats.
What I mean is, if a girl chews with her mouth open for example you could say something like, “Hey slow down when you eat, you don’t want to choke.” or something that doesn’t completely embarrass her but gets her to contemplate her actions, girls over analyze enough that she’ll figure it out. Obviously, dealbreakers that are a bit harsher will require more delicacy but there are some things her friends don’t know so can’t point out for her (like in bed).
If more guys do things like this, it’ll stop girls from being insecure messes that spend years in therapy, develop eating disorders or get plastic surgery just to try to fix what’s “wrong” with them simply because a boy failed to mention ever to her that she has bad breathe.
So to the nice boys, start being a little more upfront, and to the mean ones if you’re gonna be a dick at least tell the girl what’s wrong before you ghost out at least for the next guy so the next girl you meet won’t be yet another “crazy bitch”.
This has been a PSA.
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